Seeing my children playing together (even though the twins do not know how to play with their Kohkoh yet) can easily make my eyes fill with tears…tears of happiness. Seeing them playing and laughing make my worries goes away easily..no wonder there is a word saying “children are hugs from heaven” and I agree 100% with it.
But you know what breaks a mommy heart? Well I can’t say on behalf of other mommies but I believe they agree with me if I say seeing their children crying when they papa or daddy or father goes to work/out leaving them behind. It really breaks my heart when Josh cried and begged his Papa not to go out that day (hubby was working last Sunday).
Hubby tried to explain to little Josh that he needs to work and promise Josh that when he’s back from work, he’ll bring him out. Josh answered hubby this “My Josh follow papa work ok?” and asked his papa to carry him and hug him close. I can see hubby tears as mine had started to drop. I had to take Josh from hubby while Josh was crying loud to his papa.
Hubby left to work sadly. I calmed Josh and tell him that if he stops crying, mommy promise to bring him to his Kohkoh Brian house that night. It took half an hour for him to stop crying and asked me to call his papa. Luckily, after talking to his papa, Josh back to the cheerful boy I know.
See how tight he holds his papa? I took this photo so that we won’t forget this day. Unfortunately, that is not the only bad event happened that day..I broke my Lange Sohne watch, a gift from hubby for my birthday last year 
15 Mar 08
12:06 am
Ohhhhhhh….pooor Josh…yeah I know what you mean…it would definately breaks my heart to see if Ethan starts to cry when we go to work too….
15 Mar 08
9:54 am
When I was a little kid myself, i also cry when my dad went to work. There was one time, i cried and didnt want to let my dad go but of course he had to go lah. Mau half and hour oh baru i calmed down. But I think dad kept thinking about me crying at home, he came back home with a new blue dress bought especially for me! Happiness.
I guess that’s how I relate your feeling as to what my dad was feeling that time. Sampai mau beli barang so that he wouldnt feel bad leaving me behind for work.
15 Mar 08
10:50 am
This is really how I feel on every weekend. Leaving you all, against my heart, to go to work. Especially seeing and can actually feel Josh’s sadness.
15 Mar 08
7:43 pm
aww.. poor Josh. It really hurts to see our own child cry..
15 Mar 08
11:10 pm
obviously Josh is very close to his papa !!
17 Mar 08
12:12 am
That is a normal reaction of a child when their parent go somewhere…it also mean that we are loved….
17 Mar 08
10:19 am
ooh my, i feel deeply touch too seeing the photo alone…..and i can’t begin to think the feeling of his beloved dad & poor Josh at that moment!!
what to do….tell josh more often that his dady is just earning him a good living & more TOYS, haha…….
17 Mar 08
4:01 pm
adui.. so kesian… tia pa bah josh.. papa cari usin.. if papa got income from blogging.. no need to work out loh.. stay at home only.
17 Mar 08
6:00 pm
@Aunty J -
Aunty J-u wouldn’t want d day to come, trust me..really sakit ati u know
@chegu carol -
chegu carol- I know wat u mean, sometimes, we also do d same thing..hoping he forgets d bad event earlier on.
@ThePapa -
ThePapa-same here, same here
@Emily -
EmilyYup it really hurts..btw, thanks for dropping by.
@chinnee -
chinneeyes,he is, ever since I’m pregnant with d twins.
@nimrodjo -
nimrodjoeven though it is normal, it’s still hurt right?
@jacss -
jacss-believe it or not, that’s exactly what I tell him..”papa need to work to buy u more machine gun” which of course I know not correct to say right?
@shirley -
shirley-harap gitulah tu Ley..
18 Mar 08
12:00 am
hi, came from your hubby’s blog
poor Josh.. hope in time, he’ll understand..
18 Mar 08
4:09 am
My daughter also like that.Everytime her dad step out the door she will block it and hug him so tight.Don’t be sad I think our kids just want to manja abit.:)
19 Mar 08
2:31 pm
Beautiful kids you have
22 Mar 08
12:36 am
@sting -
sting-hi, thanks for dropping by. Yup, this happen every time he’s papa go to work on weekend
@sweetiepie -
sweetiepie- Josh close to his papa coz his papa manja him a lot unlike me
@Samantha -
Samantha-Thanks for d compliment Samantha!